A few days ago, amidst my crazy studying for final exams (which I have finally finished!), I ran across this simple, yet immensely poignant “Letter to a Law Student Interested in Social Justice,” by Professor Bill Quigley. Now, I’m not a law student, but I hope to be sometime in the next few years. And, the letter truly touched me. If I could, I’d rewrite every portion of the letter here - because it was just that inspiring and enlightening. But I can’t, and so I’ll focus on a few portions that really spoke to me. In the letter, Quigley says:

Advocates who do not create time for regular reflection can easily become angry and overwhelmed and bitter at the injustices around and ultimately at anyone who does not share their particular view about the best way to respond.

This is so true. When you start thinking about critical issues and social change, and when you get consumed in all the grand ideas of how messed up the world is and what you can do to help - everything else starts to seem a bit more trivial. You start to get really angry when you see people constantly striving to become millionaires, or just trying to climb the corporate ladder. It starts to become extremely frustrating to witness people obsessed with acquiring material possessions and fame.

This is happening to me. For the past week or so, this feeling has been intensifying, as I keep wondering: Why don’t people care more? There are so many ongoing atrocities around the world: conflict, torture, poverty. When there is so much to be done, how can people sit idle? It’s started to make me angry, because I just don’t think it’s right.

True, society is changing, and it’s changing for the better. Every day more people are dedicating time and effort to public service, and the nonprofit industry is becoming mainstream. Social enterprises are pulling talent in with fresh, innovative ideas and business models. But at the end of the day, it’s frustrating to still see so much greed everywhere.

Let’s face it - society’s priorities are completely screwed up. Who said it was okay to have prestige defined by the number of zeroes in your salary, the brand names in your closet, or the cars in your driveway? Why is it considered “cool” to live extravagantly, to have all the latest gadgets? Why does society define people by what they own, and not who they are? We all have our priorities wrong when money and possessions and fame become more important than integrity, humility, passion, and dedication. Prestige needs to be defined by what’s in a person’s heart, by compassion and goodness, and by dedication to a mission larger than yourself - passion for what you do, and passion for changing the world.

This is one of the problems with law school. In his letter, Quigley describes how students enter law school with the desire to help others. Bright eyed and imbued with idealism, they hope to use their legal skills to defend those who need it most. But 2/3 of those who enter law school with interest in government or public sector jobs do not end up in that line of work. Quigley quotes a student who said: “The first thing I lost in law school was the reason that I came.” Why? Because law - and thus, law schools - ultimately isn’t about justice, or upholding some noble ideal. When it comes down to it, much of the legal profession is about making money. He writes:

Unfortunately, the experience of law school and the legal profession often dilute the commitment to social justice lawyering. The repeated emphasis in law school on the subtleties of substantive law and many layers of procedure, usually discussed in the context of examples from business and traditional litigation, can grind down the idealism with which students first arrived. It pains me to say it, but justice is a counter-cultural value in our legal profession. Because of that, you cannot be afraid to be different than others in law school or the profession – for unless you are, you cannot be a social justice lawyer.

There’s the key point - in order to care about others, and want to make a difference in others’ lives - you’re automatically different. This is true for law school, but it’s also true in business school, and for society as a whole. Why is it that if you actually care, you have to be different? An anomaly? Shouldn’t the desire to better the world be something normal? Something admirable, something to aspire to?

But it’s not. I don’t blame individuals for chasing success or money. When society values something, it’s natural for people to gravitate towards that. Not everyone knows what their true passion is, but it’s often because they haven’t been exposed to all the career paths out there, and so turn to society’s conceptions of what to do as a rough guideline. Well, that guideline is skewed, and it needs to be changed.

That’s why before we can help “change the world,” we have to change ourselves. As you, and I, and others one by one decide to go against the grain and work to improve the world we live in, society will undergo a shift. Someday, it’ll become more normal for law schools to emphasize human rights law or public defense. Someday, I’ll have to hope that working on criminal justice reform or microfinance will be as prestigious as being an investment banker or corporate lawyer. We’re not there yet, but I hope someday we will be.

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  • Sam
    Akhila, this is so beautifully and passionately written! You're right, society's priorities are all screwed up. We focus too much on materialism and we measure success and achievement by outward appearances instead of actions or qualities within. You say it so well: "Prestige needs to be defined by what’s in a person’s heart, by compassion and goodness, and by dedication to a mission larger than yourself - passion for what you do, and passion for changing the world."

    It's hard to reverse how people think and act, but as Matt said, it only starts with one. And, maybe we need to recognize that there are some people who will never change, and focus our energy on our own positive actions. Great post!
  • Like Mandy said - change, caring, it's almost like an added full-time job. It's a commitment that, well, you have to be willing to commit to.

    I honestly believe that all of us, every single one, are inherently good people. We want to do good, we care, and we want to encourage others to think positively. The challenge is, again, not knowing how - not knowing how to put that first foot forward, and being overwhelmed, thinking that the world's problems are bigger than us.

    But, in the end, and as we said again and again last month during the Inconvenience of Change series, it starts with one, it starts with you, we all have to be the leaders within our communities - leading by example and starting the cha(nge) reactions.

    We are the innovators, the leaders of tomorrow - we talk about this stuff because we care and we want to make a difference. Well said as always Akhila - a great read.
  • Matt, thanks for your insight! I agree, it's an added full-time job but it doesn't have to be, and shouldn't be. Our jobs should celebrate passion and change and caring. Why can't we incorporate this into our jobs? That's the exact thing I wish would change - that caring is an "added" thing and something "abnormal" - something outside that we have to commit to. Why can't it be something normal, something people aspire to do?!

    I agree, we all have inherent good qualities and often want to help. But people do find it overwhelming, and I've totally experienced this myself. But, at the same time, society forces people into this way of thinking. Like I said, it's just not cool or prestigious to work at a nonprofit or work to change the world - it's not as mainstream or prestigious as being a corporate lawyer or ibanker. That's the bottom line, and for this to change we do have to change one by one.
  • Caring is hard work. I was taken to task the other day because of my frustrations with dealing with international delegates. I was really starting to hate them (and I mean hate) for the constant demands on my time and resources, clamoring for visa letters, etc, until I was starting to vent at every available opportunity about moochers and liars. I was starting to view everyone who asked us for a letter as people seeking to take advantage of us.

    I was abruptly taken to task by my boss who pointed out that they were our clients as much as other people were and that I shouldn't be so quick to judge and dismiss their requests. I was embarrassed that I let my frustrations get the better of me (although in my own defense, I have never once yelled at or responded rudely to an inquiry). But because I care about the success of my project, I switched tracks and made it my priority not to get so angry at the next email or phone call.

    Burn-out is not uncommon in this profession and I think there is something to be said about people who make it their priority to serve others, because it takes a true passion to do the work. But not everyone is called to this kind of lifestyle. We as a society do value wealth, prestige and shiny things over other people but there will be lots of people who argue that they worked hard for their material goods and the lifestyle they lead. And I'm all for that. I truly am. I truly believe that we need to be careful not to fall into the fallacy of the glorification of poverty--that poor people are more righteous than the "wealthy". It's one of the reasons why many people are unengaged--there's nothing in it for them. Altruism is a myth and it's not a good foundation to build upon (in my opinion anyways).

    The flip side is that there are many wealthy people who work equally hard to raise awareness and fund initiatives that wouldn't otherwise be funded. Philanthropists play an integral role in the social justice field because of their star-power and money.

    Btw...there are lawyers out there who do excellent work for social justice, who are truly engaged and passionate (and those who are engaged in it but more for the reputation than actual passion). They are wonderful people, hard-working and down to earth and it's true they do it out of love and not money. :) You just gotta put your star power to good use!
  • There are a lot of amazing points here, Akhila. I want to touch on the part about "0's" on the end of your paycheck and focusing on the money.

    It's really frustrating and as I've mentioned with different people and how to measure success, there's so much more than money. Like you say, caring more and being devoted to something that you believe in. There's nothing better (regardless of your cause or belief).

    I have a feeling that we're going that way--where microfinance will soon be important, more widespread and relevant. But who is to judge. Since you care, why let anyone else stop you because of a general consensus or belief?
  • I agree, completely! We're moving in the right direction, but I think it definitely has to go faster - I guess, things can NEVER happen fast enough, right?

    It's true, that we shouldn't let others stop us because of their beliefs. I'm certainly going to try my hardest to continue doing what I'm passionate about. The difficult thing, really, for me is that society doesn't value dedication to a cause and to bettering the world as much. And so - it makes my job all that much harder. Not only do I want to contribute positively, but I have to swim against society, and this means I'm never going to be paid as much as people going for the money, and I'm often going to be struggling. This means, I myself am more likely to be burned out and to turn to something more lucrative to pay off my student loans and to make a comfortable life for my future family.

    Because society values money and fame/success, it makes it harder for me to actually do what I care about without being pushed into the sidelines of having low pay, lower living conditions, and so on. That's why the the general consensus is stopping me from doing what I care about.
  • Echo
    You raise a valid point Akhila, as always.

    But what is a person's incentive to help those in need - those with less money and fewer freedoms? I'm not just talking about the developed economies of the Western World, or the upper-echelons of Indian society... I'm asking in a more global, universal, innate sense. No matter what, no matter where, there will always be someone less fortunate - somewhere out there in the world. What's encouraging us to seek them out and lend them a hand (or two, if we can spare it)? What's preventing us?

    A Darwinian perspective would suggest that we're all in it for ourselves, a "survival of the fittest" as it were. I, on the other hand, like to think there is strength to be had in numbers. Co-operation is in everyone's interest - I guess the difficult part is helping everyone realise it!

    Don't you think the same, Akhila?
  • Great points you bring up. I think the fundamental reason to help others is that first of all, we are all deeply interconnected. Our success actually depends on the success of people around us, and our stories are all intertwined. It's important to take action due to this fact. Moreover, I believe that this is the RENT we have to pay to live on this earth. Just by living, think about it - we're consuming resources, destroying animals and plants, destroying the environment every time we drive a car or turn on the light. It's true. We're polluting and overall, we're destroying the very earth we live in. So we have an obligation to help others in return, as a sort of rent we owe to live on this earth. This is philosophical, but I do believe..it's universal. And finally, I think it's just about leaving something behind by helping others; material desires like money and so on make you happy only to a certain extent. But helping others is important because it's a lot more fulfilling and also allows you to live as a truly good person.

    The Darwinian perspective was true, perhaps, when the world had limited resources. But today, there's enough wealth in the world to provide EVERYONE with a decent standard of living. However, the distribution of wealth is immensely unequal.

    I agree with you - cooperation is vital but the difficult thing is to get others to realize it too!
  • You know what, I'm totally with you on this one.
    I, too, used to (and still do at times) get so angry, so cynical, and so frustrated at our society, at my peers, and at everyone in general for not caring and for being OK with the status quo. It does suck that our society has become one that treasures, strives, and cares about money..and I want to say that this is also a product of a capitalistic society. It seems that in a capitalistic society, it is inevitable that everyone strives for more money and more wealth - and it almost becomes a bad cycle: people desire wealth and money, and our capitalistic system by design perpetuates this want..and thus people find value and "happiness" in money.

    But even then, I, too wonder what has happened to compassion? I don't know when and why people stopped caring, and it still makes me angry. At the lowest level, people generally just are not as willing to help others as they were before, and by 'others' I mean even the people they see around them; forget about the rest of the world. So at a higher level (globally), I guess it's not surprising to find that - as you said - caring has become out of the norm.

    And in the end, I do agree with you: that we have to change ourselves. And by doing so, we will impact those around us. I think that the increase of focus on fields such as social entrepreneurship is definitely a step in the right direction. And individuals such as yourself is exactly what we need in our society. So, thank you for being you! :)
  • Rosalind, thanks for the excellent comment! I completely agree with everything you're saying - caring has become out of the norm, and not just for the world as a whole but even for our own neighbors. Like you said, people are even less willing these days to help people near to them - let alone people far away in the developing world.

    And I totally agree - rather than letting ourselves become cynical, consumed in anger and frustration at the state of the world - we have to funnel this passion and anger into something productive and just "be the change" you want to see in the world. Really, we just have to start doing something about it - and hopefully more and more people will follow, and eventually things will change.

    Change takes generations, but it has to happen sometime. And the best way is to let go of your anger about these things and just work to make things better.

    Thanks for the great comment - thank YOU for doing what you do too :-)
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