The internet is awesome. I spend hours a week Googling and Twittering and Facebook stalking. The internet has brought us such gems as the “Hamster Dance” and full episodes of The Office. However, in this age of information, the internet can also make the world seem like a depressing place. It’s hard to miss the headlines on your Yahoo! Mail homepage every day: suicide bombers, poverty, global warming, war, and the like.

I know the answer for most of us is to tune out all the bad news. After being bombarded with information on a daily – if not hourly – basis, we can’t help but become desensitized. Even I admit to clicking on articles about celebrity gossip rather than reading about the latest news on the war in Afghanistan (yes, we are currently at war, remember?).

Many members of our generation (in America, at least) are rather apathetic about current affairs. Sure, we know who the President is, but we certainly don’t care what he thinks about healthcare or what is going on in the “outside” world. Or maybe we do care but we think, “Hey, I’m not Mother Teresa. I just want to be happy. I’ll let people like Al Gore worry about global warming.” There is nothing wrong with feeling that way. In fact, I derive a lot of my personal happiness through friendships and hobbies. However, we are all capable of being Mother Teresa – even if for only an hour out of our week.

You know the motto when it comes to recycling: “Every little bit helps.” It’s cliché, but it’s true: there may be mountains of rotting garbage in our dumps but if we collectively work to recycle and re-use, we can make a substantial change in our environment. Grass roots efforts do work, from recycling to Presidential elections – just look at President Obama! So why don’t more people make activism a part of their life? Whether it’s volunteering at your local pet shelter or blogging about gay rights, there are small and big things each of us can incorporate into our lives that WILL make the world a better place. And believe me, it will be less painful than those forty-minute elliptical machine sessions you’ve been forcing yourself to do three times a week.

What kind of activism do I participate in? If you’ve read my blog, you’ll know that I am a feminist political blogger. I blog about a wide range of topics – from hot button issues like abortion and sexist double standards to lighter fare like relationships and book reviews. As for my personal life, I recycle and work actively to be as eco-friendly as possible. I hope to start a career in a meaningful industry – be it the government or a non-profit organization. I want the work I do in my lifetime to bring about positive change – however great or small.

Recently, I applied to write for a college fashion blog that had an opening for interns. I received an interesting response – while the editor of the blog thought I was a strong writer and displayed a good sense of fashion, she told me that she was rejecting me because she felt writing about fashion would bore me and conflict with my beliefs. She said, and I quote, “[my blog] is simply a fun, positive blog that covers the trends and provides style advice . . . There are plenty of places to find negativity online, but few places to escape it, and I want my site to be one such escape.” I was seriously taken aback. Sure, she could tell from my writing samples that I am not a fan of our consumerist culture; something that I had explained would not be a problem because I could easily advocate thrifting and other eco-friendly fashion tips while discussing the latest clothing trends. However, the real shocker to me wasn’t the fact that she felt I wasn’t right for the job because of my beliefs but because I had beliefs at all! My blog, by focusing on something more “depressing” than fashion, makes me too negative for fashion writing? I was surprised to find myself placed in that sort of category. See – I’m just like most young people in our generation. I go to college, I party hard on the weekends, I obsess over guys and I am a huge fan of clothes shopping. However, I happen to moonlight as a feminist blogger. Does that make me so different from everyone else? I hope not!

After thinking about the response I got from that fashion blogger for the past few months, I realized something – she saw me as one of those “special” Mother Teresa types who found it possible to look at all that is wrong with the world and try to change it, rather than just be a “regular” girl who enjoys having a good time. My friends, I beg to differ. I think there is a little “activist” in all of us. Sure, bloggers like Akhila and I might spend more time than the average person writing and thinking about depressing world issues, but we have other passions and interests as well. In fact, that’s the great thing about blogging – it’s a learning experience and I’m getting my voice out there – but, at the end of the day, if I’m too mentally exhausted to write a post, I just…don’t. I can sit in bed and watch the Hills to my content (and hey, it inspired me to write a post just the other day!).

So, what are your passions? Do you love to write and care about global warming? Why not start a blog. Do you enjoy sports? Why not volunteer as an assistant coach at a public school that might not have a lot of sports-related funding? There are fun and “easy” ways of incorporating activism into your daily life without feeling like you are sacrificing your own well-being and interests. Hey, we can’t all be Mother Teresa, but we can be better citizens, friends and members of the international community.

In what ways are you engaging in activism in your community and/or abroad? Do you have some suggestions for other people looking to make a change in the world?

The Changemaker

Dollface is a college student at a small liberal arts college in New England. She blogs anonymously about feminism and politics so that her future plans of becoming President of the United States aren’t compromised by her stance on abortion (…just kidding!). She enjoys long walks on the beach, poking fun at Twilight fans, and generally being a sarcastic @$$hole. She blogs at Rotten Little Girls (http://therottenlittlegirls.com) and you can follow her on twitter @rottendollface. Be warned, of course, that her twitter updates are horrendously boring and of little interest to anyone.

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  • Nice work and good writing. We welcome all original content -- http://www.activistpost.com/p/write-for-uscontact.html

  • I love your blog
    I have just started a blog, a personal project to improve my own understanding of human rights.
    I hope you don't mind if i use your image "i want change" for a post I just finished.
    I am plugging your blog as the source.

    Keep writing.
  • I thoroughly enjoyed this post. I really like how you shared the story about the fashion blog and the response from the person hiring. It's an interesting approach, but in the end, I love your clear view on what happened.

    It's not fair to be pigeon holed into (let's say) what you write about on your blog, but we of course, also own the content we write as it's 100% our own thought, ideas and self-published. We can all be Mother Theresa and even if we focus on the negative to make it better, it doesn't mean we walk around gloomy with the pain of the world on our mind constantly.

    Thanks for the reminder. So well written :)
  • Thank you so much! Glad you enjoyed the post.

    I wondered if I should include the story about the fashion blog "incident" but felt that it was, in the end, worth sharing. Hopefully this series will inspire more people in our generation to make activism a part of their everyday lives.
  • Catti
    This is a really interesting post. I definitely agree with the sentiment that “every little helps.” Some people I have spoken to sometimes feel like they do want to make a change, but think there is so much need in the world, they are not sure how they could possibly make a difference. One girl I met volunteering in Ghana (and I hope she will not mind me sharing this with you) has the following quote as a signature at the end of each email: “Nobody made a greater mistake than he who did nothing because he could only do a little.”-Edmund Burke. I think it is great that you say “… we are all capable of being Mother Teresa – even if for only an hour out of our week,” and that you write about various ways that people can do that, which really will make our world a better place.

    As for the response you got from the editor of the fashion blog – it is sad, but I am actually not surprised. I started a small children’s charity (www.chworldwide.org), supporting locally run organisations in developing countries. I also love fashion! People seem to find it conflicting that I both care about children’s issues AND like finding the perfect accessories for an outfit, as if running a charity means I could not have any (what they see as) “trivial” interests. This seems to have happened to you too. Judging from this article, the editor definitely missed out by turning down your application!

    Your suggestions for “fun and ‘easy’ ways” to incorporate activism in to people’s lives are really great, and your post gave me lots to think about. Thanks!
  • I agree with your quote as well, but I have to say that whatever IS done has to be done effectively.

    I have to add the caveat because we so many organizations out there going about things the wrong way. We see young people getting involved in issues and going abroad, volunteering on the ground for a week or two, without any knowledge about the topic. Sometimes this can actually hurt a community rather than help, if the student/young person has no cultural sensitivity or has no idea what they are doing.

    We have to be careful -- doing something EFFECTIVE with FULL understanding and careful research IS better than doing nothing. But we have to add that caveat.
  • That's a good point!
  • Catti
    Yes, I agree – it is vital that what is being done is effective. This goes for all circumstances but, of course, the importance of this is highlighted in the issue you raise - where young people (and, actually, not so young people too) go abroad to volunteer without the knowledge or cultural sensitivity needed to ensure they are truly being helpful. I was thinking more of Dollface’s suggestions about incorporating activism into everyday life, such as by blogging or volunteering locally (volunteering abroad is not usually everyday life for most people… although I honestly wouldn’t mind being able to do it permanently!). Here too, it is of course important, that what you are doing is effective. The research you talk about would be needed, but perhaps not to the same degree. Back to the point of people going abroad and doing more harm than good – unfortunately I have seen quite a few examples of this and I do not particularly like large “gap year” companies as they seem to exploit local organisations and communities, as well as those who wish to volunteer… but this is not the place for that rant!

    Again, great post – very thought-provoking!
  • This is an interesting approach... Easy steps are clearly the way to go when trying to change the masses' mindset. Having "fun" definitely has more chances of succeeding than trying to scare or impress people. We have become inmune to that by now. So yeah "dollface", this is something worth thinking about when considering change. Good job.
  • Thanks Carlos...I agree that sometimes when you're trying to "reach the masses" it really helps to provide small steps that people can act on immediately.
  • jrmoreau
    Personally, I don't fight apathy about certain things... I find it's ussually accurate and warranted. However, I'm never apathetic about helping people and witnessing justice. It's hard to not be apathetic about the government and politics in general after what I've witnessed in the last 8 years. Even with Barack Obama as president, I still feel part of me as an American has been marred forever.

    That being said, I'll never turn my back to someone in need, I love volunteering and generally trying to spread goodwill. I just happen to believe that most good things in this life will never be accomplished through the government, no matter which party rules.

    Great post!
  • JR, thanks for your great comment!

    That's an interesting point. I agree that to some extent, the Bush
    presidency could have made people apathetic and annoyed with the government.
    But on the contrary, I would say that it made me more fired up and active
    because there were injustices I saw happening that I really wanted to see
    stopped. There were things I saw that needed to be changed.

    I do think, though, that government plays an important role in change. For
    instance, things like universal education, healthcare, social security --
    these things just cannot always be provided adequately and completely by
    private companies or NGOs.

    I'm not just talking about America. I'm talking about the developing world
    -- the private sector isn't developed enough and sometimes NGOs just cannot
    take on such a huge burden. Who's going to provide security for the people?
    The government has to step in and provide much needed social safety nets for
    the people. Government can be inefficient, true, but that doesn't mean it
    doesn't have a huge responsibility and thus a huge role.
  • Hi, I just want to say that I absolutely loved this post :)

    Your main point is completely true. We're not necessarily all going to be Mother Teresa. Not everyone's role in life is to completely give up everything to dedicate their lives to social change. At the end of the day, I like to think that yes, we DO need investment bankers and consultants and lawyers to make our world turn. But at the same time, we ALSO need social entrepreneurs, women's rights activists, and aid workers to make our world run properly.

    I would say though that though we might need corporate lawyers, perhaps even more so we need even these corporate lawyers to dedicate pro-bono hours to help an immigrant family. We need investment bankers to volunteer their financial skills to help nonprofits. Same goes for consultants. We need doctors to volunteer for public health. What's missing is that skilled professionals aren't using their SKILLS to volunteer in their free time. These skills are extremely valuable in the nonprofit world!

    Ultimately, we all have our roles to play...but we also have a responsibility to give back as much as possible, and in the most effective ways possible.

    I also love your point about you & I having normal lives, watching The Hills (hey, I LOVE Gossip Girl - guilty pleasure!) because I think on the internet, this is something that people often forget/tend to overlook. I mean, at the end of the day we're normal people, but we also have our passions and hopes to better the world. I think the same can go for EVERYONE.

    Thanks for writing this!
  • Thanks for starting this series! I'm going to pass it on to my friends in hopes that they will enjoy it/learn from it as much as I have thus far.
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