I’ve lived in China for almost two and a half years.  This country has seen so much change in the past generation that it reminds me of a song I learned in elementary school: “the only thing that doesn’t change is change.”  I think that listening to stories is the best way for an outsider like me to understand and begin to take part in these changes.

Here’s one such story, from a project inspired by the Discovery Channel’s Dirty Jobs.  My friend Rich Brubaker is a prolific social entrepreneur, professor, consultant and blogger.  He recently asked ten of his interns to interview workers on the streets of Shanghai about their jobs and dreams for the future.   Here’s one example:

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Q: If there was one thing you could change about your job, what would it be?
A: Change? It is such a luxury to me. How can I dream about changing my current status? I want to do my own business, like opening my own restaurant, but who will give me the money? I want to recruit and train my employees, but who will teach me how to manage or run my place? I dare not think of change. I guess my only hope is my son. He is the one can bring real changes.

I highly recommend checking out the handful of other interviews that are up so far, as well as the comments.

What I find amazing about these interviews, and my own similar conversations, is the optimism and hope and complete absence of self-pity that shine through the words.  A common phrase in Chinese is “chi ko,” which translates to eat bitterness, or do what needs to be done.  I see this every morning when I stroll through the hutong to my office, and chat with a friendly middle-aged lady who sorts and bundles trash.  She asks me if I’ve eaten; I ask if she’s been busy (a common conversation pattern in Chinese.)  Her answer is always the same and always delivered with a smile: “if I’m not busy I have nothing to eat.”

Conversations like these are where getting involved with social change begins.  I think it’s important to develop a a strong sense for the priorities, goals, and thought processes of the local community.  This takes time.  It takes trust.  It takes language lessons.  It takes understanding that there’s not one single story.  It takes misunderstandings and re-explanations and identifying preconceived notions.  It takes a keen awareness of personal strengths.

In my time in China, I’ve been lucky enough to work with five different organizations, involving education, microfinance, and corporate social responsibility.  All of these jobs have been related to social change in some sense, regardless of the sector.  My friends here in Beijing have done amazing work in clean transportation, theatre, microfinance, sustainable energy, gay rights, showcasing the impact of global warming through ice sculptures, and so much more.  These are foreigners that have taken the time to really understand the local conversation in their respective area of focus.  (I have also met Chinese activists, but since I think that Akhila’s readers are mostly outside China I’m focusing on the roles foreigners have played.)

I am grateful for the opportunities China has given me, to learn, to listen, and to broaden my sense of social change.  Xie xie!

The Changemaker

Leslie Forman graduated from the University of California, Berkeley, with a degree in Latin American Studies.  As a corporate trainer for Yaxley Education, she teaches Chinese lawyers, journalists, and engineers to use English more effectively.  Her interests include renewable energy, events that involve costumes, and practicing her Chinese, Spanish, and Portuguese (though preferably not at the same time!)

You can catch her on Twitter, @leslieforman!

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  • Nathalie
    Thanks for sharing your experience and bringing a positive account of change. I think you pointed out the most essential factor of change: dialogue. It implies a two way communication; listening the other and expressing your ideas. Through the exchange, misunderstandings can be overcome and change can emerge.
  • Leslie_Forman
    Yes! Dialogue is so important.

    I just read this article about issues that American and Chinese negotiators face when doing business together: http://www.chinalawblog.com/2009/11/china_negotiating.html

    In the social sector this kind of misunderstanding can be even more dramatic, because the concept of a "zuzhi" (non-profit organization) is not particularly well known.

    Thanks so much for your comment :)
  • It seems as though you have really had some great experiences. To be able to experience and grow in a culture like you are must be phenomenal.

    I really like how you said that "It takes misunderstandings and re-explanations and identifying preconceived notions." It's so true. I think that is one of the biggest things that non-profit/NGOs/Foundations are afraid of. I often feel like everyone expects to get things right the first time. But the reality is that there are probably a lot of mistakes to be made before effective change is realized.

    Nice post :)
  • Leslie_Forman
    Great point, Nikita. I agree that people do expect to get things right the first time, but then making mistakes is how we really learn. Also I think the social sector may have higher expectations for getting things right, since the changes depend on money from donors. The donors, whether they are at the $10 level or the $10 million level, want to hear that their money is changing the world.

    I remember reading about how a major foundation admitted that its programs to reduce crime in Oakland didn't really work. I can't seem to find the link; it was from several years ago. It's really an incredible example because it was a carefully-done, multimillion-dollar project and the evaluations said the program was not working. This kind of honesty is so important in terms of moving towards real progress in this rather violent city.

    Thanks!
  • Yes, this is something I have been thinking about lately too. How important evaluating is; if we're not willing to admit that our strategy is not working, then change and progress can never happen. Any NGO or organization HAS to be willing to acknowledge their own flaws and has to be willing to abandon programs that don't work. It's hard to admit such things, but it's incredibly important.
  • Leslie...this is a great post. I think it brings up important questions for people wanting to work in international development: the power of listening to the people, and communities you are hoping to assist. Ultimately, we are foreigners. We don't know the nuances of what is happening in these communities, and what we suggest might be completely off the mark. What is the point in doing something unless the PEOPLE we are trying to help request it? We need to listen, listen, listen first before taking action...because otherwise it might be futile!

    Second I love your points about the incredible optimism you see! I've heard this too - that in some of the poorest communities, there is still hope and positive thinking, and there are strong bonds among the people that really bring them together despite all the difficulties they face.

    I think we can all learn from this. Despite our privileged circumstances, a lot of us can be negative or pessimistic. We really don't have a right to be, if people living much more difficult lives can do so with a sense of optimism. We have to harbor that same hope!

    Thanks Leslie for an amazing post!
  • Leslie_Forman
    Thanks for giving me the opportunity to post on your blog. It really is an honor. I've worked with social change organizations in the US too and I think the same issue exists, in which the providers and beneficiaries aren't really on the same page.

    And yes, optimism is so important! One of my favorite quotes comes from George Bernard Shaw: "Better keep yourself shiny and bright, for you are the window through which you see the world."
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